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04 May 2025 05:36 PM
04 May 2025 05:36 PM
To be honest, I think I've just been slack. I'm mentioned before that I still have stuff in bags and boxes on my loungeroom floor that have been there for the past 2 years since I moved in. The things don't have a place and home yet, so they are just dumped in the corner of the room.... @Till23
I need to get moving and set myself a timeline I guess.
04 May 2025 05:42 PM
04 May 2025 05:42 PM
When you come back @tyme 😊
04 May 2025 05:43 PM
04 May 2025 05:43 PM
Oh that sounds really hard @Shaz51 I'm not surprised it's taking a while to get things done.
And to have a house burn down as well that's a LOT
As you say though, one day at a time, or as I would say one foot in front of the other, you just have to keep on keeping on through the hard parts to hopefully get to the good
04 May 2025 05:52 PM
04 May 2025 05:52 PM
Week of the 18th May (if all goes to plan) @Shaz51
04 May 2025 06:03 PM
04 May 2025 07:02 PM
04 May 2025 07:02 PM
I'd love to do that @Shaz51 but I will be away overseas most of June doing sport stuff socially (not competitions but a bit endurance event) with other Aussies from my sport, but I really like the idea of having someone else to help with motivation.
04 May 2025 07:25 PM
04 May 2025 07:25 PM
I've only just sat down @Shaz51 @tyme @Till23 . I worked for a couple of hours then went on my usual walk, and cooked.
I can understand not unpacking @tyme . Some of your stuff might be surprises when you get to it. I have boxes dating back years
Reclaiming your space in your own home might be harder than clearing your father's house @Till23 for all sorts of reasons. And that's OK. You need to give yourself time to process the feelings.
Your house has been in the family such a long time @Shaz51 it must be full of all sorts of stuff. Are you and Mr shaz planning to redecorate? Re-imagining the space might help you decide what to keep.
I'm trying to restart my decluttering. I'm doing a little each day if I can. Unfortunately trawling through stuff is reminding me of past problems and failures.
04 May 2025 07:29 PM
04 May 2025 07:29 PM
Yes @Shaz51 decluttering with you in June would be good. I'm off to a slow start this month and hopefully by June I'll be in my stride.
@NatureLover might consider tackling some boxes with us.
04 May 2025 09:08 PM
04 May 2025 09:08 PM
Sounds like a great plan @Shaz51 @Dimity @NatureLover
I will join in when I am here and continue in July, being cooler it might be good for some heavier stuff
05 May 2025 08:28 AM
05 May 2025 08:28 AM
It's all I can do trying to keep up with the house @Dimity , I think boxes are beyond me. But tidying within the house, yes, I will try to be part of that in June.
Well done on your 2 hours yesterday.
I achieved nothing yesterday but I had a lovely day.
I'm sorry I missed page 500 of my thread; I'd been looking forward to that for a while.
Am looking forward to work today.
Hope you feel motivated today...
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