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03 May 2025 08:35 AM
03 May 2025 08:35 AM
Well done on your 3 hours yesterday, @Dimity !
I'm aiming for lots of tidying and cleaning today. I've voted already, during the week, so don't need to go out today.
Good luck to us both today with chores / tidying / decluttering...
03 May 2025 01:23 PM
03 May 2025 01:23 PM
@Till23 I have trouble with energy/motivation/stamina/focus . I tend to work in blocks of 25, 30 or 60 minutes. When I'm resting between blocks I tend to lose track of time, which is something I need to change.
I guess I'm a recovering hoarder. I no longer purchase new stuff and I've been very slowly divesting myself of stuff. The "clutter" that remains is very depressing but I feel I need to work through it thoughtfully rather than having a bulk clean-out. My attitudes to it are underpinned by a complicated mixture of anxiety/depression/bipolar disorder, c-ptsd that hasn't been formally diagnosed but that I commenced EMDR for, and troublesome family dysfunction that impacts me daily. It probably contributes to my social isolation.
Cleaning/tidying/decluttering has become my major focus, pathetic as it sounds, and I really need to diversify into other interests. I keep hoping I'll rediscover something that sparks joy a la Marie Kondo.
03 May 2025 01:28 PM
03 May 2025 01:28 PM
I've already voted too @NatureLover .
I woke very late after being in pain.
Good luck with your efforts today. I'm inspired to try again.
03 May 2025 01:33 PM
03 May 2025 01:33 PM
Sorry you've been in pain, @Dimity 😥
How's the pain now?
I'm glad you're feeling inspired.
I'm very slow to get going today. I watered front and back and have done laundry, but that's all. Am resting after lunch. Not sure how much I'll achieve today.
03 May 2025 11:43 PM - edited 04 May 2025 11:49 AM
03 May 2025 11:43 PM - edited 04 May 2025 11:49 AM
I understand @Dimity lately I have been lacking in motivation to do things.
There is an association between hoarding and early life trauma.
I need to down size my possessions a bit. I also have been clearing out my father's place after he passed away recently. He lived with me at the end and I have had difficulty moving his things on.
04 May 2025 09:38 AM
04 May 2025 09:38 AM
04 May 2025 09:41 AM
04 May 2025 09:41 AM
How's your pain today, @Dimity ?
I didn't end up getting going on the house yesterday, only a bit more laundry.
Hoping to achieve a bit more today, although I'm starting late as I had a bad night and slept in.
Hoping you feel OK today 🤞 I mean, as OK as possible.
04 May 2025 09:46 AM
04 May 2025 09:46 AM
sending you understanding hugs @Till23 , same thing with my mum , she has passed away a year now and still got lots of her stuff here
she collected a lot of things and elephants ornaments
how are you feeling today @Dimity , I have lots of pain in the lower back area
hugs @NatureLover
04 May 2025 11:55 AM
04 May 2025 11:55 AM
Hello @Shaz51 @Till23 @NatureLover
Sorry to hear about your back pain Shaz. I've had leg pain that might be sciatica, from the back.
I still have some of my late parents' stuff too. Quite a lot really.
Hoping your day improves @NatureLover.
04 May 2025 12:08 PM
04 May 2025 12:08 PM
It’s a drizzly and cool day where I am @Dimity @NatureLover @Shaz51
I worked long days on Friday and Saturday and have a headache so I have decided to try and have a rest day today if the guilt lets me.
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