Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

[Determined]

Thinking of you @Shaz51 

[Shaz51]

thank you @Former-Member, @Determined

 tears are just flowing anytime , afew times already , Mr shaz just sits there

[Former-Member]

Would he hold you if you asked him to @Shaz51

[Shaz51]

yep @Former-Member, xx feeling better

and I rang the hospital tonight and Mum is feeling better xx

[Former-Member]

@Shaz51

Hope you get some rest and enjoy lunch out on your anniversary - how many years now?

[Appleblossom]

 @Shaz51

[Former-Member]

@Shaz51

[Owlunar]

I wish this pic was bigger - I do - maybe I can do soemthing about thatTwo for the price of oneHi @Shaz51

Gee things are tough for you right now - your mum so ill in hospital and Mr Shaz and I never forget about Poor Little Kidney - you have do much on your plate so much of the time

My reading is a little scattered - but your Mum needs you to hold her hand and she is in a lot of pain which I do hope they are treating - and your relatives - who don't know the whole story - and are loading a bunch of "shoulds" onto you right now. 

And you do not need this - you know what's happening more than them - you are really into your mother's care and - I get it - you don't need extra stuff

But are they treating your Mum's pain as much as you think they could or should. Things are getting tough about pain management and I know a bit about it - I hope they are caring for you Mum's pain though - I really do

And Mr Shaz - he wants to take your out for your anniversary which is nice - but are you up for it - it seems a little confusing when you have so much to attend to that he doesn't really help much - if I have time I will read back on  your thread to see what's happening

But the flowers - I wanted a bigger picture - I wanted to wish you a Happy Anniversary and congratulation's and best wishs for both of you

Dec 

[Shaz51]

thank you @Owlunar, @Former-Member, @Appleblossom

11 years @Former-Member

My step daughter text me to say happy anniversary and is sooo glad her dad met me -- awww

@Appleblossom, @Determined, @Faith-and-Hope

will write some more tomorrow my second mum @Owlunar

[Faith-and-Hope]

Happy Anniversary @Shaz51 ..... ❤️