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BreathOfTheWild
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Hi, I need relationship advise, I am someone with a disability..

hi everyone

 

I need some advise about a relationship with someone I am with...

 

now I can't tell if this girl really likes me or just friends...

 

we have been texting each other..and i think i am ignorant towards the situation...

she's been texting me things...

 

uhh for example just recent i texted her images of my dog and she said

i am in love with your dog...

 

so........i think i didn't say what she wanted to hear..

i said cute dog right

 

and didnt say much afterwards...or it's like i made her angry or upset.

 

so i don't know her situation... so i was hoping someone can give me a hint

 

what she's trying to look for?

 

or wanted to hear?

 

somehow i think shes upset with me bout something...

 

i feel we are close, but...there's something bout the connection that really makes me think...

 

sometimes i feel it more friends than lovers...

 

 i feel she kinder forced saying i am in love with your dog...

 

and that made me think of another girl im actually talking with

 

i admit im more attracted to feminist girls..........

 

so i dont know if the one confessed feels the same way as i do....

 

more leaning into feminism....

 

i leave the other feminist girl for later if need answers....

but for now...

 

the one confessed....i don't know what's going on in her mind or feelings -.-..

 

if anyone can help me out...would be great...?

 

or do i need to find more friends to chill out and be ready whenever i am ready

 

to understand girls feelings?

 

thanks!

2 REPLIES 2

Re: Hi, I need relationship advise, I am someone with a disability..

hello @BreathOfTheWild  welcom to the forums, it's great that you're trying to make romantic connections.

 

Her text is possibly just friendly not romantic. It's the sort of text my friends & I would send to eachother -e.g. "I'm in love with this ice-cream." 

It's not a good idea to text only, spend some time with her in person. Then you'll be much more clear if it's romantic or just friends.

It's polite not to string someone along so if you don't like her romantically try not to give her the impression that you do.

Let us know how you go. Smiley Indifferent

 

Re: Hi, I need relationship advise, I am someone with a disability..

It's definitely hard to try and figure out by text @BreathOfTheWild@BryanaCamp is right, you need to see the person to figure out how they feel as you would be able to tell with body language and visual clues. It sounds like you've got two great friendships happening at the moment. Have you gone out with either of them in a social situation?

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