@Former-MemberI am so glad you had a GOOD NIGHT SLEEPING.
I have a friend with Scheuerman's disease and wonky hips and feet. Mostly she covers her legs with long skirts but a few months ago I saw her waving coming towards me and at first I just saw her happy face and then I could see all the alignment problems. It was the forst time I had seen her kees. I dont know if my face registered shock or compassion or remained neutral. Over the years we have spoken a lot about spine and disability issues and bonded because of similar physical experiences. Though mine is mainly centred around my neck I am lucky I have not had surgery. (was warned off it by a GP who respected my musicianship).
@outlanderIt is enough you need to live with the consequences of the accidents. Be gentle on yourself, dont make it harder.
Twice people in my community came up to me out of the blue and said they could see my neck was a problem. They were kind and respectful as they had seen me day in and day out. Their simple acknowledgements made a difference to me and have helped me let go of my extended family who neglected, disbelieved and even mocked me about it. I am no longer so naive or dependent upon them. It is sad but the distance helps as I can look after my health needs without added anxiety and confusion of managing too many people's contradictory perspectives and motives.
Unfortunately I dont believe that God will not give us more than we can manage. Been to too many funerals of the young for that. I do believe that there are many extraordinary people managing a great deal in their lives. It helps me maintain an outlook that is not cynical. People can be utterly amazing.
Hello @Shaz51 Lovely to see you around,
