worried

[Shaz51]

I did @outlander, @Appleblossom, my cousin just died 

my other couin died at christmas , she was 52

[outlander]

Hugs @Shaz51 my condolences to you and family ❤💛💙

[Shaz51]

hugs to you tooo @outlander 

[Former-Member]

so sorry to hear that @Shaz51 sending you my thoughts 

[Shaz51]

thank you @Former-Member, it has been very hard for my aunty to lose her daughter , a year younger than me but alot of upsetting things have been said and done in the month leading to her death

[Appleblossom]

@Shaz51I remember you went to the funeral. 52 is too young to die in this day and age. I was shocked when I heard that my cousin died. SHe was only 3 years younger than me and a decent one but like me she was in the poorer socioeconomic part of the family. The richer family members orchestrated things so I did not gind out about it til a couple of years later and I had to ask her brother to send my regards.  Grrrr ... those aunteeees.

I was responding to @outlander and thought that @outlander was not putting herself in the picture of being affected by the grief, but feeling overloaded as if ... making things alright .. was ALL her job.

Grief takes time to process ... and once we have experienced a loss of a significant other .. it is with us til we die ... processing goes subconsciously too.

[outlander]

Im not much good at anything else @Appleblossom i may as well make sure everyone else is ok. Its seems inbuilt anyway. Done the same thing when nan passed away 2 yrs ago.
Sorry just feeling out of sorts and being abit negative. Will log off for now. Needed elsewhere again
Thank you ❤

[Shaz51]

understandable @outlander, sending you tender hugs and to let you know we are with you xxx

[Faith-and-Hope]

Thoughts are with both of you @outlander @Shaz51 .....

💜💜💜💐💕

[outlander]

Thanks @Shaz51 @Faith-and-Hope 💙💕